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21 June, 2006
UPDATE!

Hey, here’s an update on my pissed off-ness yesterday. The person posting the photos of obese people on Flickr either:

A) made all the photos private
B) pulled the photos because she was tired of deleting dissenting comments, several bloggers have posted about this
C) Flickr pulled them because several people reported her for abuse
D) changed her ways and is now working toward fat acceptance (okay I’m not THAT optimistic)

All the photos are gone. And whatever way this happened, I’d say my mood has improved!

Category: Fat

Comments

Very cool.

Posted by: Corrina on 21 June, 2006

YES! They were still online this morning, but sans comments. Even if they are private -- at least very few people will still be able to see them. I call it a victory. Great job Amber. ;)

Posted by: Alicat on 21 June, 2006

I'm really glad that she pulled her pictures from public view, but I did notice in her profile page that there is a public Flickr group called "Large People of the World" with 35 members and 56 photos just like hers .. http://www.flickr.com/groups/85805826@N00/

Posted by: chickpea on 21 June, 2006

I was just checking that out Chickpea -- In fact it says she is the top poster in the group with 22 photos still in there -- we just can't see them. :o)

Posted by: Alicat on 21 June, 2006

Ahh, yeah she made them private. That group still shows her as the "top contributor."

Posted by: Amber on 21 June, 2006

Good riddance. I made a lengthy comment on the set that was summarily removed, and I sent a rational, polite e-mail to the vintage car enthusiasts group that she volunteers for suggesting that public association with that type of person threw their legitimacy and professionalism into question.

Thanks for stopping by my place, Amber! And thanks for bringing this to everyone's attention. Flickr is one of my favorite things in the world, and I know there's a lot of unsavory crap that goes on there, but that shit was just out of control.

Posted by: michelle/weaker vessel on 21 June, 2006

My hope is that, at the very least, she was ashamed of herself. After all, that was what she'd like to invoke in anyone who doesn't fit her idea of beauty (just as her husband REALLY doesn't fit mine). SHAME.

Posted by: Belinda on 21 June, 2006

awesome. Her pictures made me want to ridicule leathery, skeletal people. But that would just be petty.

Posted by: raquel on 21 June, 2006

heh.

can that whole community not be reported as offensive?

Posted by: Cara on 22 June, 2006

See? Karma at its best!

Posted by: Charmaine on 22 June, 2006

Good for you Amber. You rock!

Posted by: Mayada on 22 June, 2006

Out of curiosity does anyone know if she is European? I ask because one of my friends is from Germany and her brother and his girlfriend came to visit her in Texas.

At one point as they were sitting on my couch they were giggling madly as they viewed a photo on their digital camera. I just looked at them with a smile and was curious what they were viewing. They let me see and it was a picture of a lady who was obese, sitting in one of those electric carts at Wal-Mart. I couldn't believe that they had taken this poor woman's picture and were using it solely to amuse themselves. I didn't know what to say so I remained speechless.

They are so intrigued and entertained by "big" people in the U.S. and at the same time they are thoroughly disgusted by it. I guess in East Germany it is a very rare sight to see an obese person.

They constantly remarked on the portion sizes that they were served in restaurants, as well. They couldn't believe the waste of food and how it appeared Americans were constantly obsessed with food.

I had to bite my tongue a lot around them because I realized because of their different culture that their perception was very different than mine.

What's y'all's thoughts on this?

Posted by: zay on 22 June, 2006

My thoughts? Being a foreigner is no excuse for being a dick.

Posted by: Amber on 22 June, 2006

so Amber -- either someone from here or some friend of her's (or the loser herself) just visited my page and said I had a drinking problem and that I was just as bad as her.

Hm. IP is 69.149.222.239. Have at it.

Posted by: Alicat on 22 June, 2006

That lady has every right to post those photos and your personal attacks on her and contacting her clients (what are you thinking!?) is way worse than anything she did. Americans ARE huge, that is what people in other countries say about us (besides being rude and loud, like you are being. Even if you have come to terms with being fat, you surely know how unhealthy it is.

Posted by: foxy on 22 June, 2006

well there you go. They are from Olathe Kansas. So obviously her or a pathetic friend that supports her instanity.

Oh, and they came from your page. ;)

Posted by: Alicat on 22 June, 2006

Ali-
That IP is the same as "Foxy" who just commented above. Email is jd_wilkerson@sbcglobal.net

Posted by: Amber on 22 June, 2006

yep -- she managed to squeak in those comments while I was commenting as well. :)

Posted by: Alicat on 22 June, 2006

this is such a nice break from typical office political drama. i'm glad i read of you.

Posted by: carrie on 22 June, 2006

Jesus, that's lousy. I'm glad the pics are down.

Posted by: julia on 23 June, 2006